Sex and Prostitution

Prostitution is a cherished tradition that has been prevailing since the beginning of human civilization. Many social workers and intellectuals have soared against this primitive profession, but there is no signal of it waning even a bit. Men have tried to extinguish their sexual appetite by using the prostitutes. Some even have tried to show off their masculinity. One cannot help but feel sorry for the hapless prostitutes. Many committees have been formed, but nothing could redress the despair of such wretched women. The history unfolds that most of the girls are forced for such a profession that only attracts humiliation and apathy from all corners. Most of the prostitutes discover them in unenviable spots after the initial teething problems. Everybody starts constantly eyeing their positions, wondering when they can be used as sex machines. The seemingly reluctant politicians often show pseudo tears for their woes, but some of them are also alleged with several molestation scandals. Brushing asides controversies, the prostitution continue unabated at most homes even unconsciously. The male dominated society is geared up to raise acrimonious debates on the tea table about women’s liberation, but many of them are engaged in similar attitudes, whereby the legally married wives are used no more than prostitutes. Nobody raises eyebrows as they can never think of substituting the wife by a prostitute at bedtime. The libido of women often loses its way in the dreary desert of forceful sexual penetration of the powerful males. Most of the males pretend to remain consciously unaware, so as the females start accepting it as a social phenomenon. However, many men can not show guts to exhibit resilience to the social norms that forbid them to visit pros quarters frequently. They might ponder about the fantasy of thrilling nights in cabaret or pros quarters, but they fail to overcome the social barriers. It may sound bizarre, but most of the males often voluntarily pave the way for prostitutes in disguise instead of seemingly reticent wife as suave and placid mannerism fails to offer exciting sexual...

Sex and Marriage

Caterina and Stopanov have come in to the limelight in the recent past. They have announced the sale of their virginity to the open world as a commodity and sarcastically they have even got buyers! Caterina’s hymen might have earned a premium price, but the duo has raised an acrimonious debate in today’s society about the ethical concepts underlying sex and marriage. Physiology reveals that intercourse may cause a permanent loss of the hymen in females or there may be remnants. Sexual involvement causes several penetrations in the external vaginal opening and the hymen becomes completely immaterial during course of life. The hymen may be broken due to several reasons other than sexual penetration. Still both males and females become highly sensitive about this flimsy membrane that covers the vaginal opening. The prevailing concept is that the females try their best to secure the hymens for their husbands, which becomes their best present of their sacred love. However, now, most of the females and males hardly care about retaining their virginity till marriage. The media has bestowed showers upon Caterina and Stopanov as they have been able to show guts to exhibit resilience to the eternal bonding of marriage. This free-sex age has already hit marriage, the oldest institution in society, under the belt. Now, perhaps no one tends to believe that ‘Marriages are made in heaven and are consummated on earth’ of Lyly, John. How can then the symbolic hymen become such a sensitive and sensational issue? The Hindu and other mythologies never preach polygamy. The core concept of marriage propels an intimate union of a guy with a girl of permanent nature. The two should legally, socially, emotionally, physically and spiritually blend together. It is indeed true that the male dominated society has always attempted to take undue advantages of the prevailing social customs and fragility of women. The twenty first century has certainly enlightened us with modernity resulting in harmony in marital relationship in most cases. A true marital relationship flourishes only when one strives to comfort and console the partner even more than self. The un-breached hymen remains as a symbol of invaluable trust and respect that can gear up any budding relationship. Alas! The poor guys have got hardly any way to reaffirm their virginity. Sex becomes a natural phenomenon when the adolescents step into their puberty. The money woven business world deliberately chooses to escalate sexual appeals notwithstanding its far reaching impact on the audience. The advertising driven market exercises all options to...

Resilience to sex

Let us call a spade as a spade. Sex in the inescapable ingredient of marriage life and unnecessary resilience can cause a formidable devastation in such a relationship. The human body is a gift of God and each of its attributes and functionality has got a tremendous impact in any social relationship. Its really unfortunate that the fertile brains of some conservative people have tried to make sex untouchable, which has always created confusion and several misconception in the young buds. Truly speaking, at times, it has cast its detrimental effect even among seniors including married people. The ardent love of a married couple can never remain complete without a true harmonious passion, where sex plays the most important role. The stress, depression, disproportionate distribution of fat in the body may affect the libido of either and a quick treatment can rebuild the relationship. If either of them lusts and the other remains non-responsive then it can hardly find synchronization, which is highly essential to maintain a long lasting relationship like marriage. The problem comes, when a schizophrenic partner is obsessed by some illusion and exhibits resilience against sex. It has been tested by the medical practitioners that woman’s libido reaches at the extreme immediately after the menopause. If the female orgasm comes very lesser in numbers, then she can hardly make the love life thrilling for her partner. It has been also tested that deep seeded diseases like Arthritis, Diabetes, inflammation can affect the desire tremendously. The situation becomes worse, when a schizophrenic lady of mid age fails to satire her sex from her husband due to some illusive impression. Like every other properties even sex exhibits its attributes during the course of time and a continuous dissatisfaction can prompt such a lady to approach even a teen age guy after the menopause. The irony is that even the lady fails to know that it is her obsession against sex, arising out of her diseased mind, has forced her to such a unpardonable incident. Its better to look for proper medical help to save such patients from such catastrophe and reestablish a healthy sex life that becomes sensational and continuously rewarding. This is true when the female orgasm and male libido coincides then both reach the climax, which is essential for a true marital relationship. Its better to come out of such orthodox shells and become pragmatic to live a long and healthy life. After all, God had created us to enjoy our...

Marriage – the institution

Marriage is the oldest and most traditional social institution of mankind. Adam and Eve could hardly feel the necessity of marriage, but as the world grows, civilization had taught mankind to form institutions keeping various factors on the board. We can simply treat marriage as the seed of a desired bonding between a guy and a girl, and becomes fruitful only when it is watered properly, it leaves it’s far reaching fragrance to the society. Its like a diamond ring, you need to wipe out every dust to make it more glittering. The flowery dream communicated by various media, the unbearable tension of today’s life style, the restless minds of today’s young stars at times get divulged and some people treat marriage just a game of fun, where divorce comes even faster than changing the color of the shirt. We can still treat them as exception as a result of contorted facts manufactured from the fertile brain of a gamut of people of a particular segment. We must apprehend impediments in maintaining a holistic relationship of a marriage, but it is surely a wonderful bonding, that teaches the young minds to share both joy and pain for life. When you dream of marriage, your subdued mind might become unconscious and when you get married, you become conscious. It is said, the intellect becomes fruitful only when the spirit of the nature meshes with the materialistic world. Similarly a successful marriage deserves the real mesh of two souls and bodies. The imagination of a dream girl or dream boy may bend with reality, still the relationship continues, so as the world. People, who believes in immortality of soul, they find marriage also as an immortal relationship. The crux is people often try to find accomplishments of all beautiful dreams in marriage, which never becomes realistic just like the youthful romanticism hardly find its 100% success in the hard reality. Still the social bonding of marriage encompass love and feeling for the counterpart, may be even as a result of compulsion. In the worst possible case, It may be compared with a cage, where birds have been forced to live together in spite of their likings and disliking, who despair to get out, but hardly can. Even if marriage in an edifice, we need to rework and rebuild perhaps every night. In marriage nobody can deny the impact of the sexual relationship, which makes the bonding stronger. Post marriage sexual life makes your life disciplined, arises the fellow feeling and it...

Sex – the starting point of spiritualism

 “Happiness is spiritual, born of Truth and Love. It is unselfish; therefore it cannot exist alone, but requires all mankind to share it.” says Mary Baker Eddy.   Lets us start with the term sex. Sex is a natural phenomenon of every living creature. The natural attraction to the opposite sex follows the magnetic laws, whereby a north pole always feels an indomitable attraction for the South Pole. The extreme satisfaction lies in intercourse where the women orgasm is fulfilled by the ejaculation of a man.   According to Andrea Dworkin, “You think intercourse is a private act; it’s not, it’s a social act. Men are sexually predatory in life; and women are sexually manipulative. When two individuals come together and leave their gender outside the bedroom door, then they make love.” But tell me honestly, how many can really leave the gender outside? The obvious result is a complete dissatisfaction or even a partial one. The ever-ending innovative mindset of human beings and an ever-increasing emergent frustration have led to a lot of misuse and perversion in several stages of civilization. Even at times it has become by force, where it looses its enormous joy and makes it bitter like Joanita Kyakuwa describes, “He had sexual intercourse with me by force. I don’t remember how long it took, but he did not use a condom. I was crying and I felt betrayed.”   The prosecution has been reformed and legalized in various countries and even modern civilization witnesses male striptease. Nights Clubs have started pulling a lot of crowds by displaying jacuzzi dancing girls even in small cities. However, the chaotic world gives an elude picture to the young generation and the free globalization at such an early stage of life misleads the objectivity and opens the dark side of sex, where sex is treated as compulsion/ on sale commodity instead of an emotion driven physical relationship, where both the male and the female achieves utmost satisfaction after the closest interaction. People have started confusing between the state of two extreme pleasures, as stated by Mark Twain, “One of life’s most over-valued pleasures is sexual intercourse; of one of life’s least appreciated pleasures in defecation.” However, lets try to find out the ideal satisfaction, you get out of a proper intercourse, where both start floating in the air and the exertion leads to a sound sleep with a romantic body and mind. Lets keep apart the kiss competition, rather let us focus at a kiss, which comes spontaneously among...