Every young minds become desperate to listen to the sweet lyrics, I love you, as a deep expression of life long commitment from someone of the opposite sex, for whom he or she has been eagerly waiting for long. The phrase hardly losses it’s worth whether it is uttered in a very private romantic moment or in a louder manner in a public place. The small statement with a deep passion electrifies the body and mind and become able to generate an initial jolt from within.

Whether it is the guy’s feather touch among the scattered hairs of the girl or the girl’s moisturized lips on the palm of the guy, both start feeling wobbly in a sacred feeling and momentarily all the muscles of the body become enchanted by the vibrant song, I love you and start echoing the chants even unconsciously.

It is the exuberance of either that can fill the lives of both in abandoned joy and happiness for a shorter tenure, but a passionate endurance can only convert the short term whirlwind to a long term calm and quiet relationship, which can bear stress and strain as obvious part of life.

The initial stage of fantasy indulges a lot of fanaticism and starts fading away as a rule of the nature, when the cloud monotony overcasts the shiny blue sky of the fairytale.

It is the mutual respect and trust which can only lead to an unflinching faith and love, is always challenged by the inevitable crux situations, often resulting an imbroglio state. If one is over enthusiastic and the other lacks even a bare minimum level of motivation, then it becomes too difficult to succumb with the pressure of the opposite side. If the Debit and Credit sides of the balance sheet starts showing an ever growing difference, even an expert accountant fails to tally. A continuous disparity becomes killing and starts cultivating the seeds of communication gap.

Likewise the augmentation becomes more eminent and it is bound to develop some kind of jealousy without analyzing the hard efforts of the achiever.

It might even reach at a stage, where normal impeccable look and statements of one can burn the heart of the other. The middle class sentiment forces him or her to blame the luck ignoring the blood and sweat behind the success of the other. The stage may become dormant or prominent.

The frustration level may reach so high that even one erupts in jubilation at the slight defeat of the achiever, forgetting the life time oath taken by themselves.

It is heard that one lady started selling herself to hundreds of people and converted to be a call girl, just to challenge the husband’s income, which he could achieve due to his immense intellectual capabilities.

The irony is the two young minds, which had admitted impediments at their young age, they bend down in front of the inescapable facts of life, the ego. The vindictive mind set converts the same phrase I love you in a sarcastic way and it may even land up at a stage of formidable devastation, where the wife even sets his sleeping husband on fire.

Don’t worry every story doesn’t find such a tragic end. We can call it an edifice, which has to be negotiated continuously to enjoy the holistic institution, called marriage.

It is NOT a cage, where you will despair to come out, rather its a social stigma, which forcibly teaches you the fundamental discipline of humanity like tolerance, fellow feeling. modesty etc.

One needs to value the natural instinct of the other and eradicate any doubts/ confusion about the opposite side as transparency and clear discussion can remove a lot of misunderstanding. The sensational relationship can really teach you what love is as love can be called as the harbinger of hope in this hard reality, if and only if it is handled with care.

So, be prepared, do a proper home work and never lose consciousness!