Be a good guardian and not a butcher




Often animating the stagnant phase of our life may be one of the most endeavoring assignments for us. Can any one pierce out what is meant by the term stagnant phase?

Penetrate the heart of the blue eyed boy of the family; who usually was the apple of his parent’s and grand parent’s eyes right from his birth and suddenly every one had solitude him, because he failed to score promoting marks in his board examination.

The poor boy failed to convince his beloved guardians that even the greatest high tech gadget on this universe can not give constant, consistent performance; even the mightiest robot has wear and tear, instead he is a mere teen age guy, not a merchandising product.

Recently many wrecked incidents around us had literally and distinctively changed our entire ideologies and perception regarding our parents.

Yes parents, whom we once perceived as the God beneath the sky. Can you recall that once a movie came with the tag line it is all about loving your parents. That movie had depicted the character of ideal adorable guardians. But the harsh reality is all the characters in that movie was fictitious and there were certainly no resemblance to it with the real life. Recent traumatic incident, a father thrashed his sport star son so savagely for a trivial vain that the fellow immediately died! Again a teacher whom we were taught to respect as our second parents had stabbed an infant so brutally that after few days of tie-breaking combat in I.C.U, death finally told upon. Yes! Can you measure the atrocity when even a feeble child is not beyond the wrath of our so called sensible, responsible guardians!

It’s often said, A son can be a tyrannical son but a mother can never be a tyrannical mother.

Today’s guardians have effort fully wronged him. Innumerate young soul had downed the curtain of life after shivering with a not so perfect result or not a vast money yielding job, its not at all just frustration but because of the psychological atrocity he faces in and out of house by his descent  guardians; that undoubtedly comprises taunting of parents,  sarcastic remarks inflicted by honorable teachers. It is simply satirical to witness these reverent guardians tensed with the current terrorist attacks not realizing that they them selves are terror to their own children.

Much hypocritical is after their child perishes they illustrate proudly that how loving, caring, concerning and understanding guardians they had been!

They even pamphlets about the holy nature of their children. They pretend to be total surprised to find the reason that had dragged their innocent child to death!

All you guardians over there please forgive if the elaboration sounded cacophonous. There is genuinely no deliberate attempt to hurt you. Please give it a thought that respect and love is some thing that we all have to achieve with our due efforts. As guardians are the one whom we always imitate or want to be like them, it is high time that guardians strive hard to regain their lost loved and respected position in the eyes of their children.

After all human can commit mistakes but God is strictly prohibited to commit any blunder; as we love and admire God in mask of guardian due to their perfectionist avatar.

By ARITRICA CHAKRABARTY.






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